Traveling Abroad For American Men

by Jordan Harbinger, The Art of Charm

I know a guy who?s so dissatisfied with the local flavors that he imported a woman from England. It?s no secret that every man wants to try something a little more exotic than he?s used to. So when making your plans to travel abroad, think of places where you?re going to like more than just local craft brews. These are five places I can?t recommend highly enough for single men on the prowl.

Eastern Europe

There are a few perks to traveling the former Warsaw Pact trawling for women. First, American tourists are more rare there, making you a bit of a unicorn. Women are curious about who you are and what brought you to their lands. Some places, such as the Ukraine, have more women than men, meaning that men actively avoid relationships. This is great for you as a minimal amount of sweet talk goes a long way. Oh, and did I mention that it?s Eastern Europe and everyone wants out? Two words: Green card.


Feminism never really took root in Russia. This means that women place a high priority on looking their best at all times. Russian women are some of the fastest to fall in bed with their mates and they?re also very competitive when it comes to landing a man. Get ready to have some of the most beautiful women in the world fighting over you like you?re on a beer commercial.


Americans are generally under the impression that the news in other countries is a 24-hour torrent of anti-American hatred. In fact, most other countries like and admire the U.S. or just don?t care. Mexico is one of the most pro-American countries in the world, let alone Latin America. The ?streets paved with gold? stereotype is what you?re going to encounter in Mexico, so don?t be surprised if you have women clamoring for your attention. Everything is Mexico is cheap and the food is great. And for my blond and chubby readers: There?s few things Mexican women love more than a tubby, blond-haired, blue-eyed white guy. Godspeed to you, Sully O?Reilly.


We can start with the fact — fact — that this country has the most beautiful women in the world. Then we can talk about how your favorite type of waxing is named after this place. Like most other countries in South America, Brazil is inexpensive when you have Yanqui dollars to spend. Further, women there are known for being aggressive and going after what they want. This allows you to kick back and be the hunted rather than the hunter. Add to that beautiful scenery and a culture known for its love of a good party and you?ve got the plan for your next vacation getaway.


Women in China really want to know a lot about Westerners. It?s a culture as foreign and exotic to them as theirs is to us. This is another country where things are cheap, so you can get your new sweetheart all kinds of gifts without breaking the bank. Almost all of the women here are thin as well for guys who are into that sort of thing. With a deep and rich cultural history, you?re never going to run out of things to do while visiting China.

Now, time to renew that passport…

Jordan Harbinger is a Wall Street lawyer turned Social Dynamics expert and coach. He is the owner and co-founder of The Art of Charm, a dating and relationships coaching company. If you dig this and want to learn more from Jordan and The Art of Charm team, then visit You can also interact with Jordan on Facebook.


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